Want to attract in a partner who treats you right?

Want to attract in a partner who treats you right?
by Michelle Renee Johnson, Expanding Joy Coaching   

Want to attract in a partner who treats you right?  ....then be the partner that you want to attract in.

So often I hear from clients and others whom I support, that they are fed up with their current partners or prospective partners. So in order to attract in that perfect partner, we work on getting clarity on what they do want. The list is often familiar: someone that respects me, someone who is honest, has integrity, communicates well, is open to new things, loves me unconditionally, etc. etc.

After that list is made, we take some time to look at how they are showing up in their current relationships. Many are very surprised to find that they are not exhibiting all the traits they are looking for in a partner themselves. Now why is that relevant? Remember friends, who you attract in is always a direct reflection of what you have going on in yourself. So if you are not exhibiting the traits you want to see in your future partner, how can you attract in that partner?  You are not a vibrational match to them.

If you truly want to attract that perfect partner in… then as with everything, you have to start with you. Start cleaning up how you are in your current relationships. If you want someone who is unconditionally loving to you, you first need to unconditionally love all the others in your life… including yourself. If you want someone who is an open and honest communicator, start communicating openly and honestly with all those you care about. If you want someone who is punctual and reliable, start being that punctual and reliable person in your current life.

Remember, you always attract in that which is a match to your current vibration. So if you want to experience it in another, your work first is to experience it in yourself.